Honeymoon Tales: Three’s A Crowd

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Honeymoon Tales: Three’s A Crowd

By Pamela Fagan Hutchins of Road to Joy.

Most of you probably remember the hilarious scene in Caddyshack where a floater causes mass exodus of the swimming pool, then the pool boy fishes it out with his net and eats it, because it’s only a Baby Ruth?

Well, this story is a lot like Caddyshack.  For real.  Except in a lake, on our honeymoon.  And it sure as hell wasn’t a Baby Ruth.

Caption: I’m not so sure the rental car company

would have approved our rougher-service-than-intended

usage of their car, but no harm/no foul.

My husband Eric and I honeymooned in Montana, in June.  At the time, we were training for a half Ironman triathlon, so we needed to find an upper body strength and aerobic substitute for swimming during our two weeks of bliss.  We decided that canoeing or kayaking would suffice.

We stayed in an adorable B&B near Yellowstone, because the owner advertised healthy, organic food.  Cauliflower kagel, beets, and quinoa for breakfast surpassed our expectations, not necessarily in an enthusiasm-generating way, but we felt fantastic.  And hungry.  Very, very hungry.

However, back to the story.  Our “surprise! we’re vegetarian!” B&B sat near a tundra lake.  For those of you who have not seen a tundra lake, imagine a beautiful lake in a mountain clearing surrounded by tall evergreens.  Picture deer drinking from its crystalline waters, and hear the ducks quacking greetings to each other as they cruise its glassy surface.  Smell the pine needles in the air, fresh and earthy.

Well, it’s nothing like that.

A tundra lake is in the highlands, no doubt, but the similarity stops there: no trees, no windbreak, no calm surface, and no scenery.  Instead, it’s an ice-chunk-filled, white-capped pit of black water extending down to hell, stuck smack dab in the middle of a rock-strewn wasteland.

Other than that, it’s terrific.

Many times, I have poured out my phobia of dark water to my husband.  Over and over he has suffered through my dislike for being cold (which is anything below 70 degrees).

So Eric drove ahead to scout the lake and came back bubbling over with excitement.  He pronounced it “perfect” for our tandem canoeing.

Maybe it was because we were newlyweds, but somehow he decided that I would love nothing more than to canoe this lake in 40-degree weather and 35-mph winds, wearing 67 layers of movement-restricting, water-absorbent clothing.

Maybe it was because we were newlyweds, but I somehow assumed that because he knew of my dark water phobia and hatred of the cold, I was in good hands.

Or maybe it’s just because we excel at creating these types of situations.

Whatever the reason, you can see where this is going.

So…we drive up to the lake across the barren terrain.  Eric is bouncy.  I am unable to make my mouth form words.

Other than, “You expect me to get in that @#$%&&*$*canoe on that @#$%&&*$* lake?”

I promise he is smarter than this will sound.  And that I am just as bitchy as I will sound.  In my family, we call my behavior being the “Bell Cow,” as in she who wears the bell, leads the herd, and takes no shit from other cows.

“Absolutely, honey.  It will be great.  Here, help me get the canoe in the water; I’d take it off the car myself, but with that wind, whew, it’s like a sail.  Careful not to tump it over; it’s reallllly cold in there.  Not like that, love.  Where are you going?  Did I say something wrong?”

But the only answer I gave him was the SLAM of the car door.  My prelude to tears is anger.  And I was at the angry stage.  But we were newlyweds, so he escaped the worst of it.  Then the tiny tears pricked the corners of my eyes.

I knew I had to try to canoe.  I couldn’t just quit before I started.  We were training.  I needed the upper body exercise.  If I didn’t do it, Eric wouldn’t do it, and that wasn’t fair of me.

I exited the car.  Eric was dragging the canoe out of the water and trying to avoid looking like a red flag waving in front of me.

Super-rationally, I said, “What are you doing?”

“Well, I am not going to make you do this.”

“You’re not making me.  I’m scared.  I hate this.  I’ll probably fall in and all you’ll find is my frozen carcass next summer.  But I’m going to do it.”

My poor husband.

Anyway, we paddled around the lake clockwise in the shallows where the waves were least high, and I fought for breath.  I’m not sure if it was the constriction of all the clothing layers or hyperventilation, but either way, I panted like a 300-pound marathoner.  It would have scared off any animal life within five miles if you could have heard me over the wind, and if there had been any animals around.

Suddenly, Eric shot me a wild-eyed look and turned our canoe toward the center of the lake, paddling furiously.

“What are you doing?  You’re going the wrong way!”

“What, I can’t hear you?”

“Turn around!”

“I can’t turn around right now, I’m paddling.”

“Eric Hutchins, turn the canoe back toward the shore!!!”

And, as quickly as his mad dash for the deep had started, it stopped.  He angled the canoe for the shore.

“What in the hell was that all about?”

“Nothing, love.  I just needed to get my heart rate up.”

I sensed the lie, but I couldn’t prove it.  My own heart raced as if I had been the one sprint-paddling.  For once, though, I kept my mouth shut.

The waves grew higher.  We paddled and paddled for what felt like hours but made little forward progress against the wicked-cold wind.

“Eric, I want out of the canoe.”

“We’re halfway.  Hang in there.”

“No.  I want out right now.  I’m scared.  We’re going to tip over.  I can’t breathe.”

“How about we cut across the middle of lake and shave off some distance?  That will get you to the shore faster.”


Now I really had to get out because it was the second time I’d called the canoe a bad name, and I knew it would be out to get me.

Eric paddled us to the shore without another word.  I’m pretty sure he thought some, but he didn’t say them.  I got out, almost falling over into the water and turning myself into a super-absorbent giant tampon, and he turned the canoe back over the water and continued on without me.  This wasn’t how I’d pictured it going down, but I knew I had better let him a) work out and b) work me out of his system.  I trudged back around the lake to the car looking like the Michelin man and beat him there by only half an hour.

By the time we loaded the canoe on the top of our rental car and hopped in, we were well on our way back to our happy place.  Yes, I know I don’t deserve him.  I don’t question it; I just count my blessings.

That night we dined out — did I mention we were starving to death on broccoli and whole-wheat tabbouleh?  — to celebrate our marriage.  Eric had arranged for delivery of flowers to our table before we got there.  The aroma was scrumptious: COW, COOKED COW, yay! and of course the flowers.  We held hands and traded swipes of the Chapstick.  I looked at his wind-chafed, sunburned face and almost melted from the heat of adoring him.  Or maybe it was from the flame of the candle, which I huddled over to stay warm.  What was wrong with the people in this state?  Somebody needed to buy Montana a giant heater.

He interrupted my moment.

“I have a confession to make.  And I promise you are really going to think this is funny later.”

Uh oh.

“Spill it, baby.”

“Remember when I paddled us toward the middle of the lake as hard as I could?”

“I’m trying to block the whole experience out of my mind.”

“Yeah, well, let me tell you, Sweetness, it was about ten times worse for me than you.  But do you remember what you said about falling in yadda yadda frozen carcass next summer blah blah?”

I didn’t dignify this with an answer, but he didn’t need one and continued without much of a pause.

“Well, you were in front of me, breathing into your paper bag or whatever, when I looked down, straight down, into the eyes and nostrils of a giant, bloated, frozen, very dead, fully-intact, floating ELK CARCASS.”

“You’re lying.”

“I am not.  It was so close to the surface that if you hadn’t still had those tears in your eyes, there is NO WAY you wouldn’t have seen it.  You could have touched its head with your hand without even getting your wrist wet.”

“No, you did not take me out on a lake with giant frozen dead animals floating in it.”  A macabre version of alphabet soup popped into my mind.

“Yes, I did,” he said, and I believe his tone was triumphant.

“Oh my God.  If I had seen it right then, I would have come unhinged.”

“More unhinged.  I know.  I was terrified you would capsize us and then you would quadruple-freak out in the water bumping into that thing.  I had to paddle for my life.”

He was right.  I let him enjoy his moment.

And I am glad he confessed about the dead elk.

But I can promise I will never canoe on a tundra lake with Eric again.  Even if I got my courage up, he would never invite me. 

See, I told you he was smarter than he sounded.

Now, Caddyshack fans, THAT is what you call a floater.  I am just so thankful no one fished it out and — EWWWW — ate it.

Got any great honeymoon stories, or, better yet, floater stories of your own?


p.s. There’s video.  But not of the elk incident.  Here are three links (below):

Rasta Rock

It’s a Tri-Training Honeymoon

How many bags does it take for Eric Hutchins to go on his honeymoon?

By Pamela Fagan Hutchins of Road to Joy: Join her for the ride as she screws up her kids, drives her husband insane, embarrasses herself in triathlon, and writes utter nonsense about everything from rednecking to floaters.

Copyright Pamela Fagan Hutchins 2010 All Rights Reserved

Pamela Hutchins is the author of  Road to Joy  Let me introduce you to her!


A few words from Pamela about her life and who she is:

Pamela Fagan Hutchins (that’s me!) writes about the myth of “having it all” from the busy position of having a little too much of everything: writer, mediocre endurance athlete (triathlon, marathons), wife, mom of an ADHD son, five kids/step-kids, business owner (www.epspros.com), recovering employment attorney and human resources executive, consultant, musician, and Aggie/Longhorn hybrid.  Basically, I manage to do just enough to screw everything up.  I did win Romance in the 2010 Writers’ League of Texas Manuscript Competition for Leaving Annalise and Mainstream Fiction in the 2010 Writers’ League of Texas Manuscript Competition for Conceding Grace, both for unpublished books, but that probably means they didn’t have enough entries.

She is I am well-known for my Type A slightly OCD tendencies — and alphabet soup life — and for making everyone around me tired. I am never without my iPhone and rarely without my red Vaio laptop. I live with my husband and our three youngest kids plus 200 pounds of pets in Houston, but our hearts are still in St. Croix, USVI. 

The name of my blog — Road to Joy (or it might be Rode to Joy, depends upon my mood each day) is a song reference; my husband didn’t get it, possibly because as a rock bassist he doesn’t listen to enough classical music.  My entire family lives in terror of earning a mention on these pages.

© 2010, Tough Cookie Mommy. All rights reserved.


  1. Pamela, I have to tell you that I was absolutely horrified at the thought of that huge and disgusting carcass so close to you guys in the water. I would have freaked out! I’m shocked you didn’t run for the airport immediately.

  2. I have to say that not all husbands get to prove their eternal and REAL and true love by keeping a “giant, bloated, frozen, very dead, fully-intact, floating ELK CARCASS” away from their wives. Most would have been like, “Oh cool! Hey look, honey!” It is so nice to know there are gallant men like Eric out there (or is it that he valued his life more??) -!

  3. I have to take your husband’s side. lol Poor chap. 😉

    That must have been quite a scene – just like in one of those movies with happy endings. I think I would have freaked out too although I’m a great swimmer, I’m not that keen on the cold.

    That elk part of the story just gave me the shivers. lol

  4. It was horrifying 🙂
    One of those things you never forget!

  5. Oh, Pamelot! Once again, you made me laugh!! I could not imagine, but then again, I wouldn’t have gotten in that canoe to begin with!!

  6. Cracks me up every time I read it and I was there! The Carcass even spooked me a little bit staring at me from under the surface.
    What was surprising was just how cold it was in mid summer there. I remember a bike ride one day where it drizzled a little and by the end of the ride my hands were frozen in the shape of a claw, I could not used the brakes if I wanted to.
    All said though that trip was wonderful and I have such vivid memories of it all.

  7. Ha! The husband snuck on and commented 🙂
    Such a patient fellow.
    Thanks, y’all. And thanks, Maria, for having me as a guest poster.

    • Yes, he did! I was just commenting to my husband that I think it is so great and sweet that he supports your blog and provides feedback. My hubby is great in that area too. He is now subscribing to my blog so I guess I can’t talk about him anymore. Yeah, right, like that will ever happen! Aww, Pamela, thank you for swapping guest posts with me. You are an amazing individual!

  8. HAHA, wow what a story! You’ll get to pass that one on for years to come!!

    Great guest post!


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